two of my guy friends posted a 9gag comic about being friendzoned on fb

on both posts, i said 

Can we not even pretend like men don’t pull this shit too? The whole “you’re like a sister to me” shit happens all the time.  When someone isn’t romantically interested, they’re not interested. Stop being a victim and find someone else who wants your attention instead of whining about someone who values your FRIENDSHIP instead of your sexuality. It’s bullshit, it’s insulting and no matter how nice you are to a person they don’t owe you their fucking vagina. 

it’s possible i’ll be down two facebook friends by the end of the day, yupper.

every easter i remember the one i spent in the uk

when my host family served me my first gin and tonics and i loved them

and had three before we ate

and realized what a poor choice that was and had to play it cool until we sat down for the meal

it was great

so okay

in 2012 i submitted my taxes for 2011

but i didnt get the paperwork from unemployment and it didnt dawn on me to look for it cos in the last five years, ive been in and out of work so much, it was hard to keep track

so last year i started getting these letters about how i owed them all this money. 

realized what happened and we amended my taxes and sent them back in paying the difference. the difference being less than 200 dollars, not the nearly six hundred they were asking for. 

after a while, we thought we had it licked but then i started getting the letters again, so we went to a tax person

when i first sat down with her, i asked if the IRS ever made mistakes and she said no

after hours with my father and i, reviewing all the information, she changed her tune and resent the information showing that we had amended my taxes and the amount i owed was less than what they claimed and that i already paid it. 

so, ever since then, they’ve continued to hound me and the amount has gone up due to non-payment and interest. 

so she sends ANOTHER letter and their response today? 

you didnt claim unemployment.


OHOH OH. so a coworker does hair and I talked to her today about fixing mine and for now we are starting with a haircut but i saw another hairdo she did and when i have more money, imma have her do the same to me (only with black instead of blonde)

this way i can have fun colours without my redhair coming in an fucking up the party. i can just fix the roots with more black without touching the colour *cabbage patch*

to add insult to injury, the IRS sent me a letter referring to my refund as my OVERPAYMENT. EXCUSE YOU?!!!!???

randomly remembering the hours i spent watching this video over and over trying to get the dance down 

when i was like… 12 or 13… lol maybe younger, idk. 

lawwwwwwd. (i did eventually have most of it down actually)

oh i forgot to mention that when i was at my parents house doing taxes, i sorta… came out to them about my religious views. 

i havent really hid how i feel like on facebook and what not but i was always scared to have this discussion with them cos my dad especially held religion so high in importance. 

and even this week he expressed his disappointment in my turning away from religion and i explained to him that its not that i wasnt able to be a moral person without it and that i do believe in somethings but the heaven/hell/bible/organized religion stuff was hard for me to get on board with. I explained that he should be proud that he raised a daughter who is smart enough to question when things dont make sense and that i just try to live my life by being good to others because i believe what you reap in this life, you sow in the next whether that’s a reincarnation or afterlife, and I’m open to either being the answer. 

and surprisingly he seemed to understand and maybe even be okay with this, which floored me. 

idk, just wanted to share that i guess. 

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you know what annoys me a little?

the other day, the girl who sits next to me peeked into my cubicle as i was going through tumblr and i was reblogging a norman gifset for my norman blog and she was like, wow youre like obsessed with him huh

and at the time, i was just like “oh a little”

but then i thought about the guys i worked with at my last job

who spent ALL their time talking about sports. looking at lizards on google images. looking at cars. 

and no one ever leaned over to them and is like, “wow youre like obsessed or something”

why do GIRLS get this? cos our interests aren’t still life? cos last time i checked, neither was fucking sports. 

why do guys have hobbies and girls have obsessions, its kinda bullshit. 

so my team lead and his assistant know that my friend passed away and i was talking to his assistant about how the funeral is tomorrow and that i cant go cos im working and she talked to the company and they are letting me go early tomorrow and not giving me any attendance points even though i told them it wasnt necessary. 

if i wasnt convinced that place was better than my last, that would have done it. 

© TH